pleasure is healing & healing can be pleasurable

Coaching and classes for self-healing, intentional dating, hotter sex, and deeper intimacy for individuals and couples.

pleasure is your birthright

pleasure is your birthright

When was the last time you truly felt safe to express yourself?

Maybe you landed here because you’re longing for more intimacy and depth in your relationships, but you struggle to voice how you feel in a way that brings the connection and understanding you desire.

Or maybe you’re ready to meet a partner who you can unapologetically be yourself and share your life with.

Whatever your motivation, I want you to know that I see you…And I’ve been there too.

It took me years of…

  • Living disconnected from myself confused about my needs, stuffing my feelings, and my boundaries…well those were non-existent.

  • Sacrificing huge things in dating and relationship like my desire to be pursued (okay you got me, worshiped – I am a Leo after-all) and my need for communication.

  • Being afraid of conflict and unsure of how to communicate my truth without causing a fight.

  • Enduring sex that didn’t feel good because deep down I thought I had to be pleasing to get the love and connection I desired – which always back-fired.

  • Pouring myself into my work in hopes that someday I might be enough. (Yet aching for a partner who I felt safe, seen and accepted with.)

…Before I *finally* learned how to express myself in a way that got me the intimacy, connection and partnership I longed for.

hi, I’m allie…

Sex & Intimacy Coach, lifelong dancer, recovering people pleaser, and cat lady (I never thought I’d say that 🤦‍♀️)

I’m here to help you create the most fulfilling, empowering and pleasurable emotional and erotic connections of your life.

My approach is personalized, practical and empathetic. In the words of my client, I’ll engage you as a human first and a client second.

I’ll meet you with mutual vulnerability, groundedness, and deep insight to support your self-healing, growth and self-expression.

I can’t wait to invite you into your heart, guide you to awaken your erotic body, teach you to vulnerably express yourself, and remind you how lovable and worthy you are – exactly as you are…

So that you can have relationships – and sex – as rich as New York Cheesecake with extra whipped cream on top (😉 my favorite).

choose your path to Empowered Intimacy

Boutique Sex & Intimacy Coaching

Tailored coaching for individuals and couples to explore their emotional and erotic self as a pathway to self-healing, deep intimacy, and better sex.

Better Sex Challenge for Individuals & Couples

A DIY challenge to guide you to improve your sexual confidence and communication, increase the quality and variety of your sex life, and get more pleasure from sex so that you can bring the playfulness, passion and connection back into your life and relationship!

Discover True Connection

Learn the essential skills for emotional intimacy in this 10-step DIY course so that you can experience deeper connection with yourself and the people you love.

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Choose from my free gifts below (or grab all three).

Free Email Course: 3 Essential Steps to Call In the Love of Your Life

Show up in dating more empowered, deserving and intentional that you ever have before so that you can choose the right partner for you.

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Free Masterclass: Boundary Mapping to Know & Express Your Boundaries

Learn to honor your unique capacity and boundaries so that you can stop feeling overextended, resentful and unseen, and start living life on your terms.

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Designed for partner or solo exploration, these cards will help you talk/think about sex differently and deepen sexual connection with your partner/yourself.

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Free Download: Sexy Conversation Cards

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