Here’s where we talk about sex and eroticism and playfulness and pleasure and frivolity and fun!
(and yes, we talk about deep emotions and intimacy too)
The work we do together supports your expression of yourself without shame, expression of your needs (also without shame), and leads to deeper connections + relationships with others and yourself.
While we do have fun (I promise!), I won’t tell you sexual healing is all an easy, serene path. I don’t intentionally disrupt your peace, but I don’t put peace on a pedestal.
Hi, I’m Allie — and I’m excited to get real with you
As a Certified Sex and Intimacy Coach based in Portland, Maine, I make talking about sex, feelings and pleasure feel less taboo and more everyday.
I know these are scary, vulnerable topics and conversations to explore, and I’m here to make it as un-intimidating (and yummy) as possible. It doesn’t mean things won’t get uncomfortable. But I’ll be right there with you, loving you through the discomfort.
pleasure can be healing and healing can be pleasurable
When we learn to listen to the body, pleasure becomes more than a sensation – it becomes a pathway to shame-free self expression.
I want you to feel confident being your authentic self — in life, in sex, and in love.
After a decade as a health coach and yoga teacher, I began my own sex and intimacy healing journey. It changed everything: my confidence, my relationships, and my capacity for pleasure.
Now, as a sex and intimacy coach and sexologist, I’m honored to guide individuals and couples through the same kind of transformation.
Together, we work to release shame, cultivate self-love, and embrace a deep knowing that you are worthy of deep connection and extraordinary pleasure.
Upcoming Event!
sex throughout
the cycle
Join Julie Lipsett (LMHC + Fertility Awareness Educator) and me for an honest conversation about sex, desire, and connection across the phases of your cycle.
Monday, December 15, 2025
7:00 - 8:00 PM EST // Online
what my clients have to say
“Allie is an exceptional coach. She has a unique talent that makes you feel confident, attractive empowered in dating.”
Michael, single client in his 30s
Allie is so easy to talk to. After 26 years of marriage, our sex life is the best it's been. Working with Allie changed everything!
Jenya, married client in her 50’s
“Allie holds space for all your feelings. Working with her is truly joyful—even when it is scary to admit you need help in the most vulnerable places.”
Lorraine, middle-aged married client & mom
“Allie helped me learn about myself, express my desires, and have the most amazing hot sex ever!”
Paul, middle-aged polyamorous client
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